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Jonathan Kaufelt's avatar

Well, yes and no. I am with you on a social compact that supports families, whether one has children or not. But I don't think a "baby bonus" is the same thing as supporting children. (In economic terms-your field, not mine) it's an incentive for someone to have (or have more) children. That is an ill-advised policy, without much, much more policy in place for the 20 years after the birth. And that's a lot of government, and government expense. So. . .yes to child care credits, I say, and no to baby bonuses.

And on a personal note, it is offensive to denigrate someone like my wife, an emergency room pediatrician for 38 years, just because she didn't have children. Vance loses that argument every time.

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Jon Saxton's avatar

This is interesting argument, but only in the abstract sense that you accuse others of falling into. What’s missing in this piece is any socio-economic-political context. Essential, beyond simply the idea that we should “all go forth and multiply,” is that, as denizens of the “modern world” that produces extraordinary wealth, we Americans and others in the world have set as a “prime directive” that lives should have value beyond, for instance, as commodities to be bought and sold in the marketplace. In the early centuries these were known as slaves, serfs, and conscripts. Some people in the 18th and 19th centuries found themselves effectively as slaves to industry and the wage system.

Today, we, as the wealthiest society ever, continue to have unconscionable levels of poverty and lack of support for the actually lives of ordinary people. It takes a village, but what happens when the village is wiped out by, for instance, agribusiness? We continue to fall way short of our prime directive except for a relative minority of wealthy elites. One of thousands of proof-points is the epidemic of “deaths of despair” which has contributed to the first time in our history that our society’s life expectancy has diminished. The existence of MAGA is a direct outcome of 40+ years of Neoliberal fantasy and elite deceptions about “Trickle-down Economics.” —- public policy designed by conservatives to extract as much blood, sweat, and value from the working class as possible. What this policy left behind was ruined lives, communities, and widespread despair and resentment. It left behind MAGA.

In my reading of American history, elites have always cornered the market for the value of life and of lives. Every generation of the wealth has had its own “woke” culture that set-up self-dealing privileges and extensive barricades to keep out exactly what Donald Trump calls the “suckers” and “losers” who are always left with little more than the admonition that they should pull themselves up by their own boot-scraps (play-on-words intended).

Context matters. Here’s one: Making it in America such that one can put some distance between oneself and all-consuming financial vulnerability and peril requires many years of education and advanced degrees and many more years of “indenture” in big firms or other prescribed professional career paths. This requires the sacrifice of much else that one might be and do, including, sometimes, having children. And sometimes, for those who for this or any other reason decide to or cannot have children, they often do choose other forms of self-actualization in this society and also ways to explore other aspects of the possibilities for human dignity and life.

The problem conservatives have had forever is that they think and live in abstract “woke” value systems of their own exclusive creation. And then they judge everyone who doesn’t adhere to these as lesser people. And they always find ways to blame the victims. And here we are again.

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